Saturday, November 13, 2010

Day Thirteen. Brown Chicken Brown Cow.

30-Day Husband Encouragement Challenge for Wives

"I am my beloved's, and his desire is toward me." Song of Solomon 7:10

Because I don't want to embarrass The Husband, or people who know us that might be reading this, I'm just going to go ahead and post the devotion here.  Any emphasis is mine.

The sexual relationship. It's one of those elements - along with money and children - that can derail a marriage through negative comments. Negativity destroys intimacy, but encouragement builds and strengthens the marriage bond.

Let's get practical here. Is your husband a "good lover?" Have you told him so? Be specific. Let him know when he pleases you. Most husbands genuinely want to please their wives, especially in this important area of marriage.

In moments of intimacy, do you find your mind wandering? This can change as you focus on something wonderful about your husband. Realize that your husband wants intimacy with you...his desire is toward you.

Does this area of your marriage need some work? Remember that this is a sensitive area for men. Be sure to encourage his lovemaking and masculinity in positive ways.

Dear Husband whorocksmysocksoffinbed, thank you for being my beloved whogenuinelypleasesme, and for letting me be yours.  I have never doubted that your desire has been only for me, and I am so thankful for that HotStuff.

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shortmama said...

I have no complaints in this area!!!

Amber said...

I have no complaints either. And, I have found that daily sexercise isn't only good for your soul but also your waistline.

Sara @ Domestically Challenged said...

very good points here! May I add that i just learned what Brown Chicken Brown Cow meant last month?

MiMi said...

Okay, but I have no idea what brown chicken brown cow means...

Shell said...

No complaints here, either. ;)